Happy New Year! January 2022 Nonviolent Communication Newsletter

Published: Wed, 01/05/22

  Jan 2022
     
NVC Monthly Newsletter
     

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What You'll Find in This Month's Newsletter:
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Upcoming Events
  • Honouring Robert Gonzales - Saturday, January 29th
Articles
Audios/Videos
  • The Life of Desmond Tutu
Book Announcement
  • Principles and Practices of Nonviolence: 30 Meditations for Practicing Compassion
Book Specials
Compassion in Action
  • Compassion in Action : Putting Yourself in Someone Else's Shoes
Distance Learning Opportunities
  • NVC Academy
  • The Center for Nonviolent Communication Trainings
Book Excerpts
  • Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life - Chapter 1
  • Comunicación no Violenta - Chapter 1
  • Nonviolent Communication Companion Workbook, 2nd Edition - Chapter 1
Handouts
  • Compassionate Communication and Empathy's Awakening by John Cunningham (Book)
Humor
  • ANVC (Almost Nonviolent Communication) Cartoons
  • PuddleDancer Press Cartoon
NVC in the News
  • How Microsoft made the stunning transformation from Evil Empire to Cool Kid | News India Times
  • Up close and personal: Heard of intimacy coaches? Here's what they do and when to seek their help
  • Making requests to each other as a way to build connections - The Durango Herald
  • KIIT World School organized a webinar on “Exploring Nonviolent Communication in our daily lives”.
Peaceful Daily Reflection/Meditation
  • Setting Goals for the New Year
Resources
  • Becoming a CNVC certified trainer
  • Guidelines for Sharing NVC for Individuals who are not Certified Trainers
  • List of 90+ NVC Facebook Groups
Songs
  • GRATEFUL: A Love Song to the World | Empty Hands Music | nimo feat. daniel nahmod
Poem
  • You Are...
NVC Resources
  1. NVC TIP SERIES (Free daily and weekly tips)
  2. FREE RESOURCES
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Events
Honouring Robert Gonzales - Saturday, January 29th
     
     
The global NVC community is invited to come together and honour Robert Gonzales’s life in a special free event initiated by NVC RISING and sponsored by:
  • Living Compassion
  • CNVC
  • NVC Academy
  • Klarweit
  • Global Dyad Meditation
The event will take place on Saturday, January 29th: 10:30 pm Delhi, 6 pm CET, 12 pm EST, 9 am PST.
     

Event Information

     

“The magic in new beginnings is truly the most powerful of them all.”
Josiyah Martin

     
     
Articles
Making Your New Year's Resolutions a Reality! by Beth Banning and Neill Gibson
     
     

In January it's traditional to make New Year's resolutions. You plan to go to the gym, get into great physical shape, earn more money, improve a troubled relationship, or get along better with your family members.

But you suspect that in a few days or weeks you'll get tired of making the effort and your good intentions will disappear. Maybe you worry about how much effort and work is involved, or you think it isn't possible to have these things. Just like last year, you'll slip back into your old patterns. Would you like to improve your chances of making your resolutions stick?

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Empower Your Child To Make Smart Choices Online by Kay Keegan
     
     

Teaching children about online safety encourages them to make good choices, according to North Texas Daily. This is reassuring news for the 76% of parents who worry about their child’s safety when using the internet. While education is crucial, it’s important not to forget about empowerment. When the two are done together, kids will be as safe as possible when browsing the net.

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How to Start Living Your True Potential: Steps to Move beyond Judgments and Live Your Best Life in the New Year by Mary Mackenzie

Do you ever find yourself in the same emotional landscape over and over again? Okay, sure, the scenery and faces around you might be different, but the way you feel — a tangible sense of dissatisfaction — seems all too familiar. Could it be Deja vu? Karma? A result of your childhood?

How can we live up to our true potential, a life filled with relationships and experiences that truly meet our needs, when we keep putting our focus on the outside rather than looking inward? Isn’t it true, that the only common denominator in your experiences is you?

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Setting New Year's Resolutions You're Likely to Meet by Tiffany Meyer
     

I’m a big believer in the idea that we’re all a work in progress. I also believe our family — whatever shape it comes in — can be an exceptional source of inspiration and support in our continued self-improvement. The beginning of a new year offers the opportunity to reflect and set goals for self-improvement. Resolutions can be a great motivator......

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Holiday Time – 2021 - The Illusion of Safety and the Buoy Effect by Tim Buckley

Safety nets, safety pins, gun safeties, safe houses, safe sex and Safeway. Safeguards are everywhere. You’d think humans had a lock on safety!

But safety is never guaranteed, is it? Somewhere, there’s always a piano falling to the sidewalk from some fourth story window. Volcanos or typhoons are ready to steal your thunder and rain on your parade. There’s a meteorite with Earth’s number on it, a black hole waiting to gobble the Milky Way.

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Marshall Rosenberg’s Non Violent Communication NVC by William Stierle

Do you have Emotional Safety and Expression in your relationship? Imagine greater intimacy with your partner and ask them this question: “Tell me what you are most afraid to say?” Check in for a second: how do you feel? Could you be feeling scared, terrified or sad, lonely, disheartened, or maybe another emotion by asking this question? What if you could safely communicate and be able to respond, no matter what they said or did?

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The Essentials of Compassionate Communication by Jon Russell
     

We have all been in situations where there were terrible misunderstandings. Either we have felt misunderstood or the other has. We often leave these situations mystified as to what had happened. How were we so misunderstood? What did I do wrong? Or: Why were they so stubborn? Couldn't they understand what I was trying to say?

This short tutorial highlights the main ways humans get into trouble trying to communicate, and describes effective new ways to communicate which avoids these pitfalls and brings people into a close understanding of one another.

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Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life
Comunicación no Violenta
Nonviolent Communication Companion Workbook, 2nd Edition

     
Compassion in Action : Empathy - A Short Film
Putting Yourself in Someone Else's Shoes
     
     
     

“New year—a new chapter, new verse, or just the same old story? Ultimately we write it. The choice is ours.”

Alex Morritt

     
     
Book Announcement
Principles and Practices of Nonviolence: 30 Meditations for Practicing Compassion by Eddie Zacapa
     

Principles and Practices of Nonviolence: 30 Meditations for Practicing Compassion offers practical meditations aimed to quell polarizing viewpoints that lead to disconnection, resentment and hatred in our current times by focusing on principles of nonviolence espoused by Martin Luther King Jr., Mahatma Gandhi and Marshall Rosenberg. It also supports readers in integrating nonviolence into their daily lives by presenting nonviolent communication.

Reviews

“With each chapter, comes wisdom and a clear invitation and request of how to practice these principles of Nonviolence. This book is enriching to the soul, nourishing to the spirit and essential for our individual and collective healing. A book for our times!”
—Sylvia Haskvitz, Certified Trainer/Assessor with the Center for Nonviolent Communication, Author of Eat by Choice, Not by Habit; Practical Skills for Creating a Healthy Relationship with Your Body and Food and contributing author to Healing Our Planet, Healing Ourselves, The Power of Change Within to Change the World.

"Principles and Practices of Nonviolence is an excellent book, especially in these troubled times! Mr. Zacapa breaks down the principles of Non-Violent Communication, as developed by the late Marshall Rosenberg, into a very user friendly format. These principles have been shared world wide and implemented in schools and prisons, used in mediation for business, saved marriages, and more. Breaking down principles by chapter, leading with quotes from Ghandi and MLK Jr, and ending with a practice exercise for your life is genius and lends itself to transforming our relationships with ourselves as well as others around us. Do yourself, your family, your neighborhood, and the world some good and read this book!"
- Kindle customer

 

Learn More

     
Handouts
Nonviolent Communication Free Handouts and Links
     

Compassionate Communication and Empathy's Awakening by John Cunningham (Book)
Visit our Handouts Page

     
     
     
Book Excerpts
Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life - Chapter 1
     
     

Read the excerpt here
Buy the book on special here - 50% off

     
Comunicación no Violenta - Chapter 1
     
     

Read the excerpt here
Buy the book on special here - 50% off

Nonviolent Communication Companion Workbook, 2nd Edition - Chapter 1
     
     

Read the excerpt here
Buy the book on special here - 50% off

     
     

“And now we welcome the new year. Full of things that have never been.”

Rainer Maria Rilke

     
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Poem
     
     
     
Humor
ANVC (Almost Nonviolent Communication) Cartoons
     
     

Cartoons by Sven Hartenstein

     

Conceived by Meiji Stewart. Illustrated by David Blaisdell.

     
     
Audios/Videos
The Life of Desmond Tutu
     
     
     

South Africa and the world is mourning the passing of Archbishop Emeritus Desmond Tutu, who died on 26 December, aged 90.

Aside from being a member of the clergy, Tutu was a key figure during the anti-apartheid movement, an advocate for human rights and a "voice of reason and compassion against poverty, racism, xenophobia and corruption, and for human development".
 

"A person with ubuntu is open and available to others, affirming of others, does not feel threatened that others are able and good, for he or she has a proper self-assurance that comes from knowing that he or she belongs in a greater whole and is diminished when others are humiliated or diminished when others are tortured or oppressed, or treated as if they were less than who they are."

"When we see others as the enemy, we risk becoming what we hate. When we oppress others, we end up oppressing ourselves. All of our humanity is dependent upon recognising the humanity in others."

"It is through weakness and vulnerability that most of us learn empathy and compassion and discover our soul."

"When the missionaries came to Africa, they had the Bible and we had the land. They said, 'Let us pray.' We closed our eyes. When we opened them, we had the Bible, and they had the land."

· ' Good sense does not always lie with the loudest shouters, nor can we say that a large, unruly crowd is always the best arbiter of what is right."

"We may be surprised at the people we find in heaven. God has a soft spot for sinners. His standards are quite low."

"If you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor. If an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse, and you say that you are neutral, the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality."

     
     
Resources
Becoming a CNVC Certified Trainer

CNVC is committed to the vision of a critical mass of the world's population using Nonviolent Communication (NVC) to resolve differences peacefully. A strong community of qualified trainers will play an important role in the realization of this goal.

Introduction to the Certification Process
Guidelines for Sharing NVC for Individuals who are not Certified Trainers

     
NVC Facebook Groups

List of 90+ NVC Facebook Groups

     
     

“Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go. They merely determine where you start.”

Nido Qubein

     
     
Distance Learning Opportunities
NVC Academy
The NVC Academy offers hundreds of affordable online personal growth courses and resources to learn Nonviolent Communication from home.
     
     

Visit the NVC Academy

     
The Center for Nonviolent Communication
The Center for Nonviolent Communication (CNVC) is a global organization that supports the learning and sharing of Nonviolent Communication (NVC), and helps people peacefully and effectively resolve conflicts in personal, organizational, and political settings.
     
     

Visit CNVC.org/Trainings

     
     

“It is never too late to be what you might have been.”

George Eliot

     
     
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News
NVC in the News!
     
Songs
     
     

“You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.”

C.S. Lewis

     
     
Peaceful Living - Global Peace
Stay Connected to the Values of Compassion With the Free 365 Daily Peaceful Living Meditations.
     
If we ourselves remain angry and then sing world peace, it has little meaning. First, our individual self must learn peace. This we can practice. Then we can teach the rest of the world.
—The Dalai Lama
     

Setting Goals for the New Year
What do you want to focus on this year? What are your goals, hopes, and dreams? It’s important to make your goals concrete and specific. Don’t just say that you want to be happier; consider how you would like your life to be different. What if your goal is to support world peace by living your own life more peacefully? Consider the specific ways you will do this....

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Sign Up for the 365 Daily Meditations
Learn about the book here

     
     
NVC - Additional Resources
  1. NVC TIP SERIES (Free daily and weekly tips)
  2. FREE RESOURCES
  3. NVC FACEBOOK PAGES

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