March 2022 Nonviolent Communication Newsletter

Published: Wed, 03/02/22

  March 2022
     
NVC Monthly Newsletter
     

We hope you find value in the resources we are providing today! We invite you to share with friends, family, colleagues, and others, if you believe they might also find value in this.

Our most recently updated topic is written on Mediation.

Our website covers over 35 different topics from an NVC perspective-all written by a senior certified trainer. Please read some to learn more.

If you are new to Nonviolent Communication please visit our page on the basics of Nonviolent Communication.

Please stay safe and healthy!

     

Thank you : )
PuddleDancer Press

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Upcoming Events
  • LA IIT International Intensive Training June 10 - 19, 2022
Articles
Book Specials
Compassion in Action
  • Compassion in Action: A Wise Lesson In Empathy
Distance Learning Opportunities
  • NVC Academy
  • The Center for Nonviolent Communication Trainings
Book Excerpts
  • The Surprising Purpose of Anger - Chapter 1
  • Raising Children Compassionately - Chapter 1
  • Being Me, Loving You - Chapter 1
Handouts
  • Differentiating Between Feelings And Faux Feelings from John Kinyon
Humor
  • ANVC (Almost Nonviolent Communication) Cartoons
  • PuddleDancer Press Cartoon
NVC in the News
  • Nonviolent Communication- Marshall B Rosenberg - Karthik Chidambaram
  • How Withholding Can Lead to Divorce By Tiffany Beverlin
Peaceful Daily Reflection/Meditation
  • Meeting Our Need for Respect
Resources
  • Becoming a CNVC certified trainer
  • Guidelines for Sharing NVC for Individuals who are not Certified Trainers
  • List of 90+ NVC Facebook Groups
Songs
  • Michael Franti & Spearhead | I'm On Your Side
Poem
  • Love Is...
NVC Resources
  1. NVC TIP SERIES (Free daily and weekly tips)
  2. FREE RESOURCES
  3. NVC FACEBOOK GROUPS
  4. NEW ** NVC LINKEDIN GROUPS ** NEW
     
 
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Events
LA IIT International Intensive Training June 10 - 19, 2022
     
This 9-day immersion experience into Nonviolent Communication (NVC) will offer learning sessions, home groups, coaching and feedback from skilled trainers, and a community environment where you can learn and practice the key skills of NVC.
  • Speak from the heart
  • Practice deep, non-judgmental listening
  • Build self-empowerment from the inside out
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    “Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance, you must keep moving.”
    Albert Einstein

         
         
    Articles
    Nonviolent Communication and the Impact of Mediation
         
         

    What is the impact of mediation and what is the role NVC plays?

    Mediation, also known as conflict resolution, is the process of helping to resolve a conflict. Usually someone not involved in the conflict plays the role of mediator.

    Conflicts can be scary, not only because of the threat of violence, but also due to other potential consequences such as emotional disconnection or missed opportunities.

    Conflict can be especially unnerving when you don’t have the tools, skills, experience — and therefore the confidence — to de-escalate, reduce tensions, and bring the conflict to a resolution.

    When conflicts are not handled well the results include emotional distancing and resentments, and in the worst of circumstances people die as a result.

    There are many methods and modalities for resolving conflicts. For example, one common modality is known as interest-based mediation, in which there is a distinction made between “interests” and “positions.” A position is defined as a rigid strategy, an approach around which one of the parties has become inflexible. Interests focus on what is important, keeping in mind that there may be several ways to satisfy an interest...

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    Drama and Story - Humanity’s Version of the Bermuda Triangle By Tim Buckley
         
         

    I invited an old friend to a sit down. We hadn’t spoken a word to each other in years, after several rancorous arguments about politics. He agreed after I said: “I only want to connect with you. Being right or wrong isn’t as important as being able to see each other again as decent human beings.”

    Like many of us, I had been sucked into the “us and them” dilemma of our age. I had retreated to the far corner of my chosen affinity group and had reduced the opportunities to talk about difficult subjects, except when I was teaching Nonviolent Communication (NVC). Then, like a soap box preacher, I would proselytize the value of NVC, but I didn’t venture out of my comfort zone to see how it works in the trenches.

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    Communicating During Conflict by Rachelle Lamb
         

    Relationships are messy!

    Yep, relationships are MESSY! So if you want to be in one and thrive, you need to learn a few things. One of the most important things to learn in any relationship is how to navigate conflict. Conflict is part of being in relationship. Avoiding it is unhealthy. We need to develop the skills to effectively manage and resolve it..

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    Vist Rachelle's website and join her mailing list

    On the Front Line Meet Marshall Rosenberg, Quiet Revolutionary
         

    Based on cover endorsements' from John Gray and Jack Canfield (Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus and Chicken Soup for the Soul), Marshall Rosenberg's Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Compassion sounds like another New Age, self-help book. Yet like Noam Chomsky -who deconstructed language and then moved on to media and politics - Rosenberg's work is intrinsically radical. Beginning by addressing language, it subverts our whole status-quo system of power: between children and adults, the sane and the psychotic, the criminal and the law...

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    Dorset's NVC Journey
         

    I am excited to share a journey with you, a journey that invites us to focus our awareness on our communication. With more awareness comes more understanding, and with more understanding comes more relief, peace and harmony.

    The process of Nonviolent Communication was created by Dr Marshal Rosenberg, an American psychologist and mediator who was a student of Carl Rogers. He was fascinated by what drives some people to love giving compassionately while others seem to delight in causing others pain. He found that connection between people is maintained and enhanced if we concentrate on two things – what is alive in each of us (our feelings and needs), and what can we do to make life more wonderful...

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    Ten Steps that Transform Anger into Compassionate Connection
         

    Practicing Nonviolent Communication guides us to reframe the way we listen to others and express ourselves by focusing our consciousness on four areas: what we are observing, feeling, needing and what we are requesting to enrich our lives. In this context the word need defines those basic human needs we all share...

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    A Review on “Non-Violent Communication: A Language of Life” by Marshall B. Rosenberg
         

    This article aims to celebrate the life and the work of renowned peace activist Marshall B. Rosenberg who elucidated the principles and tools of his Non-Violent Communication (abbreviated as NVC) approach in his untimely book “Non-Violent Communication: A Language of Life.” Indeed, “Non-Violent Communication: A Language of Life" is the magnum opus of Rosenberg's lifetime work and it stands out as a foundational transformative educational toolbox in developing the cognitive and emotive skills for compassion and reconciliation at both personal and societal level...

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    The Surprising Purpose of Anger
    Raising Children Compassionately
    Being Me, Loving You

         
    Compassion in Action: A Wise Lesson In Empathy
         
         
         

    Credit @sharonsalzberg

         
         
    Handouts
    Nonviolent Communication Free Handouts and Links
         

    Differentiating Between Feelings And Faux Feelings from John Kinyon
    Visit our Handouts Page

         

    Credit @spiritual_soul888

         
         
    Book Excerpts
    The Surprising Purpose of Anger - Chapter 1
         
         

    Read the excerpt here
    Buy the book on special here - 50% off

         
    Raising Children Compassionately - Chapter 1
         
         

    Read the excerpt here
    Buy the book on special here - 50% off

    Being Me, Loving You - Chapter 1
         
         

    Read the excerpt here
    Buy the book on special here - 50% off

         

    “Don’t waste your time in anger, regrets, worries, and grudges. Life is too short to be unhappy.”

    Roy T. Bennett

         
         
    Poem
         
         
         
    Humor
    ANVC (Almost Nonviolent Communication) Cartoons
         
         

    Cartoons by Sven Hartenstein

         

    Conceived by Meiji Stewart. Illustrated by David Blaisdell.

         
         
    Resources
    Becoming a CNVC Certified Trainer

    CNVC is committed to the vision of a critical mass of the world's population using Nonviolent Communication (NVC) to resolve differences peacefully. A strong community of qualified trainers will play an important role in the realization of this goal.

    Introduction to the Certification Process
    Guidelines for Sharing NVC for Individuals who are not Certified Trainers

         
    NVC Facebook Groups

    List of 90+ NVC Facebook Groups

         
         

    “Answer with kindness when faced with hostility.”

    Lao Tzu

         
         
    Distance Learning Opportunities
    NVC Academy
    The NVC Academy offers hundreds of affordable online personal growth courses and resources to learn Nonviolent Communication from home.
         
         

    Visit the NVC Academy

         
    The Center for Nonviolent Communication
    The Center for Nonviolent Communication (CNVC) is a global organization that supports the learning and sharing of Nonviolent Communication (NVC), and helps people peacefully and effectively resolve conflicts in personal, organizational, and political settings.
         
         

    Visit CNVC.org/Trainings

         
         
    News
    NVC in the News!
         
    Songs
         
         

    “To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.”

    Oscar Wilde

         
         
    Peaceful Living - When Our Own Pain Keeps Us
    Stay Connected to the Values of Compassion With the Free 365 Daily Peaceful Living Meditations.
         
    Don’t compromise yourself.
    You are all you’ve got.
    —Janis Joplin
         

    Meeting Our Need for Respect
    “You know I respect you. What’s your problem?” Do you ever find yourself in an argument over whether someone respects you? This argument can be frustrating if you focus on whether the other person respects you. The real question is whether your need for respect is being met. A friend of mine had a tendency to say “What a girl” to his male friends when they did things that he thought were beneath their ability, such as when they dropped the ball in a softball game. Every time I heard this, I felt annoyed because my need for respect wasn’t met...

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    Sign Up for the 365 Daily Meditations
    Learn about the book here

         
         
    NVC - Additional Resources
    1. NVC TIP SERIES (Free daily and weekly tips)
    2. FREE RESOURCES
    3. NVC FACEBOOK PAGES

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