April 2022 Nonviolent Communication Newsletter

Published: Mon, 04/04/22

  April 2022
     
NVC Monthly Newsletter
     

We hope you find value in the resources we are providing today! We invite you to share with friends, family, colleagues, and others, if you believe they might also find value in this.

Our most recently updated topic is written on Meditation.

Our website covers over 35 different topics from an NVC perspective-all written by a senior certified trainer. Please read some to learn more.

If you are new to Nonviolent Communication please visit our page on the basics of Nonviolent Communication.

Please stay safe and healthy!

     

Thank you : )
PuddleDancer Press

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What You'll Find in This Month's Newsletter:
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Upcoming Events
  • 15th Annual NVC Conference Online April 29 - May 1, 2022
  • LA IIT International Intensive Training June 10 - 19, 2022
  • The Compassion Course Online With Thom Bond June 22nd, 2022 through June 14, 2023
Articles
Book Specials
Compassion in Action
  • Compassion in Action - The Heart of Compassion
Distance Learning Opportunities
  • NVC Academy
  • The Center for Nonviolent Communication Trainings
Book Excerpts
  • Teaching Children Compassionately - Chapter 1
  • The Heart of Social Change - Chapter 1
  • Speak Peace in a World of Conflict - Chapter 1
Handouts
  • Downloads
  • Recommended Links
Humor
  • ANVC (Almost Nonviolent Communication) Cartoons
  • PuddleDancer Press Cartoon
NVC in the News
  • Books that inspired Microsoft CEO Satya Nadella | Times of India
Peaceful Daily Reflection/Meditation
  • Releasing Our Judgments
Resources
  • Becoming a CNVC certified trainer
  • Guidelines for Sharing NVC for Individuals who are not Certified Trainers
  • List of 90+ NVC Facebook Groups
Songs
  • See Me Beautiful - Marshall Rosenberg
Poem
  • Life is too short to...
NVC Resources
  1. NVC TIP SERIES (Free daily and weekly tips)
  2. FREE RESOURCES
  3. NVC FACEBOOK GROUPS
  4. NEW ** NVC LINKEDIN GROUPS ** NEW
     
 
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Events
15th Annual NVC Conference Online April 29 - May 1, 2022
     
Join and celebrate the 15th Annual NVC Conference! The energy and excitement is growing and this gathering approaches.

Get ready to walk away with skills to help you:
  • Create dialogues that strengthen relationships and build community
  • Move your thoughts beyond “right and wrong” and into interdependence
  • Cultivate resilience and grow your resources
  • Apply key NVC principles to help you thrive in times of uncertainty
  • And much, much more!
     

Event Information

     
LA IIT International Intensive Training June 10 - 19, 2022
     
This 9-day immersion experience into Nonviolent Communication (NVC) will offer learning sessions, home groups, coaching and feedback from skilled trainers, and a community environment where you can learn and practice the key skills of NVC.
 
  • Speak from the heart
  • Practice deep, non-judgmental listening
  • Build self-empowerment from the inside out
     

Event Information

     
The Compassion Course Online With Thom Bond June 22nd, 2022 through June 14, 2023
     
Registration is Open
"For anyone who wants to have more compassion, understanding and harmony in their lives and in our world”
 
  • Experience more harmony and understanding with important people in your life
  • Have less painful, shorter conflicts
  • Have more awareness of your needs, wants and desires
  • Have your needs expressed and understood
  • Increase congruence between your values and actions
  • Translate judgments into dialogues & requests
  • Increase harmony and understanding among others
  • Stay more centered, open and effective in conflicts
     

Event Information

     

“A world in which needs and requests are confused, is a world a scarcity; a world in which they are separated, is a world of abundance.”
Marshall Rosenberg

     
     
Articles
Nonviolent Communication and the Benefit of Meditation
     
     

There are many kinds of meditation. Each tradition, modality or technique works differently from the others. Each does different things, and they have different goals or aims.

However, one shared goal or aim of most kinds of meditation practices is knowing yourself better, becoming less reactive, and becoming more consciously aware in day to day life. One common benefit is a reduction in stress, along with a correlated reduction in the physiological symptoms of stress such as hypertension and digestive issues, among others.

These are tremendous benefits from meditation that align with your NVC practice: approaching situations with less emotional charge, and being able to respond rather than react.

NVC will benefit your meditation. Meditation will improve your NVC. We expand on these ideas and possibilities below....

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From Rules to Needs With Convergent Facilitation by Sarah Kmon
     

I am trying to eliminate rules in our house.

I want to move towards a home where everyone’s needs matter and everyone feels seen and heard and understood. Where we form mutual agreements rather than top-down adult-only rules.

Here’s how we’re going about it.

A difficult-to-navigate topic has been rocks.

Specifically, rocks in the house...

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Speaking from the Heart by Bridget Belgrave
     

GIVE ME ALL your money now!”

“Are you desperate and needing money to survive?”

In a narrow alley in London, this was how Aniruddha responded when, late one night, a tall man jumped out of the darkness and blocked his path. Aniruddha was staying in the UK while training as a Nonviolent Communication (NVC) trainer, before returning to India to bring NVC to the vast community of Dalit people with whom he is connected, the people who used to be labelled the ‘untouchable’ caste...

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Inmate Testimonials by David Robidoux
     

I’ve been incarcerated for 22 years. I started taking a weekly nonviolent communications class just (NVC) six weeks ago and found out how useful it was just recently, when I came before the Parole Board. They asked me to give them an example of how I’ve changed, how I deal now with conflict. I told them that, just last week, I was confronted with a situation that would illustrate my new attitude. A guy I didn’t know well approached me aggressively and made some assumptions about what he thought was true. Rather than getting defensive and triggered, as I would have done in the past, I instead thought ‘Hmm, I wonder what’s going on with him; what’s behind that anger?’ He was surprised at my approach and that I listened to him rather than get back in his face...

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Does Nonviolent Communication “Work”? by Miki Kashtan Ph.D.
     

The premises underlying the practice of Nonviolent Communication (NVC) often stand in stark contrast to the messages we receive in the culture at large - whether from our parents or teachers while growing up, or from the media or other cultural venues for the rest of our lives. They also, often enough, belie what we see around us in terms of human behavior. To take just one example, how much evidence do we see on a daily basis that would support the assumption that human beings enjoy giving? If we just look at how people behave, without adding layers of contextualizing their choices, there’s no question that the conclusion that people are selfish would be much more warranted...

Read More

     
     
     

Teaching Children Compassionately
The Heart of Social Change
Speak Peace in a World of Conflict

     
Compassion in Action - The Heart of Compassion
     

A short film asking health care professionals to take a moment and think about patients as they experience their hospital stay. Perhaps our views of compassion, empathy and quality care would be a little different....

     
     

Credit @nvctraining

     
     
Handouts
Nonviolent Communication Free Handouts and Links
     

Downloads:
Key Facts About NVC
The 4-Part NVC Process
Feelings and Needs We All Have
Differentiating Between Feelings And Faux Feelings from John Kinyon

Recommended Links:
Pathways to Connect – NVC Handouts
Cascadia Workshops – Intro to NVC Handout
Street Giraffe – Handy Handouts
NVC Next Gen – NVC Informational Handouts
Radical Compassion – NVC Handouts
Nonviolent Communication Handouts
Marshall Rosenberg NVC Handouts
Marshall Rosenberg Videos on Youtube

     

Credit @brightsidefarmsanctuary_

     
     
Book Excerpts
Teaching Children Compassionately - Chapter 1
     
     

Read the excerpt here
Buy the book on special here - 50% off

     
The Heart of Social Change - Chapter 1
     
     

Read the excerpt here
Buy the book on special here - 50% off

Speak Peace in a World of Conflict - Chapter 1
     
     

Read the excerpt here
Buy the book on special here - 50% off

     

“With every choice you make, be conscious of what need it serves.”

Marshall Rosenberg

     
     
Poem
     
     
     

Credit @believe_buddha

     
     
Humor
ANVC (Almost Nonviolent Communication) Cartoons
     
     

Cartoons by Sven Hartenstein

     

Conceived by Meiji Stewart. Illustrated by David Blaisdell.

     
     
Resources
Becoming a CNVC Certified Trainer

CNVC is committed to the vision of a critical mass of the world's population using Nonviolent Communication (NVC) to resolve differences peacefully. A strong community of qualified trainers will play an important role in the realization of this goal.

Introduction to the Certification Process
Guidelines for Sharing NVC for Individuals who are not Certified Trainers

     
NVC Facebook Groups

List of 90+ NVC Facebook Groups

     
     

“It isn’t only what we do,
But also what we do not do,
For which we are accountable.”

Lao Tzu

     
     
Distance Learning Opportunities
NVC Academy
The NVC Academy offers hundreds of affordable online personal growth courses and resources to learn Nonviolent Communication from home.
     
     

Visit the NVC Academy

     
The Center for Nonviolent Communication
The Center for Nonviolent Communication (CNVC) is a global organization that supports the learning and sharing of Nonviolent Communication (NVC), and helps people peacefully and effectively resolve conflicts in personal, organizational, and political settings.
     
     

Visit CNVC.org/Trainings

     
     
News
NVC in the News!
     
Songs
     
     

“Only those who know when enough is enough can ever have enough”

Lao Tzu

     
     
Peaceful Living - Releasing Our Judgments
Stay Connected to the Values of Compassion With the Free 365 Daily Peaceful Living Meditations.
     
There are two ways of spreading light: to be the
candle or the mirror that reflects it.
—Edith Wharton
     

Releasing Our Judgments
An underlying theme in a Nonviolent Communication consciousness is to translate our judgments into feelings and needs. It is impossible to value other people’s needs and remain compassionate if we simultaneously harbor judgments. Releasing judgments, however, can feel like a monumental task....

Read More
Sign Up for the 365 Daily Meditations
Learn about the book here

     
     
NVC - Additional Resources
  1. NVC TIP SERIES (Free daily and weekly tips)
  2. FREE RESOURCES
  3. NVC FACEBOOK PAGES

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