February 2022 Nonviolent Communication Newsletter

Published: Tue, 02/01/22

  Feb 2022
     
NVC Monthly Newsletter
     

We hope you find value in the resources we are providing today! We invite you to share with friends, family, colleagues, and others, if you believe they might also find value in this.

Our most recently updated topic is written on Loneliness. Our website covers over 35 different topics from an NVC perspective-all written by a senior certified trainer. Please read some to learn more.

If you are new to Nonviolent Communication please visit our page on the basics of Nonviolent Communication.

Please stay safe and healthy!

     

Thank you : )
PuddleDancer Press

Remembering Thich Nhat Hanh
     
     

Thich Nhat Hanh, cherished spiritual leader, passed away on January 22nd 2022. Visit Thich Nhat Hanh's Wikipedia page to learn more about his life.

Please visit Plum Village to learn more about the ceremonies commemorating his life.

     

Image Source: Thich Nhat Hanh's Instagram

     
     
What You'll Find in This Month's Newsletter:
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Upcoming Events
  • 9-day Nonviolent Communication training intensive
Articles
Audios/Videos
  • NVC Marshall Rosenberg - San Francisco Workshop
  • Nonviolent Communication: The Process of Restorative Justice
Book Specials
Compassion in Action
  • Compassion in Action: Empathy - Best Inspirational Story
Distance Learning Opportunities
  • NVC Academy
  • The Center for Nonviolent Communication Trainings
Book Excerpts
  • Getting Past the Pain Between Us - Chapter 1
  • Practical Spirituality - Chapter 1
  • We Can Work It Out - Chapter 1
Handouts
  • Articles - Center for Building a Culture of Empathy
  • Radical Compassion: Handouts, Files and Links
Humor
  • ANVC (Almost Nonviolent Communication) Cartoons
  • PuddleDancer Press Cartoon
NVC in the News
  • Thich Nhat Hanh, Monk, Zen Master and Activist, Dies at 95
  • Qingdao Elim Ministry Hosts Special Workshop on Nonviolent Communication
  • Do People Seem More Edgy These Days?
  • Buddhistdoor View: Refining Skillful Communication and Reclaiming the Power of Language
  • Resolve Conflict with Compassionate Communication
  • Lindberg: Contemplating the power of words
  • This One Word Could Ruin A Relationship
  • CTech's Book Review: Assessing the importance of nonviolent communication
  • Microsoft promises culture change at Activision Blizzard. Here's how
Peaceful Daily Reflection/Meditation
  • When Our Own Pain Keeps Us
Resources
  • Becoming a CNVC certified trainer
  • Guidelines for Sharing NVC for Individuals who are not Certified Trainers
  • List of 90+ NVC Facebook Groups
Poem
  • Creativity is...
NVC Resources
  1. NVC TIP SERIES (Free daily and weekly tips)
  2. FREE RESOURCES
  3. NVC FACEBOOK GROUPS
  4. NEW ** NVC LINKEDIN GROUPS ** NEW
     
 
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Events
9-day Nonviolent Communication training intensives 2022
     
A place where you can gather in person and experience companionship, human connection, and learning with like-minded people in community. Locations include: Ireland, Slovenia, United States, Germany, Tanzania, and Finland

These events are led by a team of experienced Certified Trainers who create a container where you can learn and practice skills to:
  • improve the quality of your relationships
  • deepen your inner peace
  • increase your contribution in the world

With health and safety practices in place, these will be the first in-person International Intensive Trainings CNVC has hosted since March 2020, when the world as we knew it changed due to the Covid situation.
     

Event Information

     

“There never was a good war or a bad peace.”
Benjamin Franklin

     
     
Articles
How Can Nonviolent Communication Aid in Managing Feeling Lonely or Feeling Alone
     
     

How can Nonviolent Communication (NVC) help you manage feelings of loneliness?

Let’s differentiate between alone and lonely. You can be alone, in any meaningful sense, and not feel lonely. And you could be surrounded by others, and yet experience loneliness for any variety of reasons — including the fact that just because people are there does not mean you feel any meaningful connection with them.

Nonviolent Communication is based on the premise that we all have the same needs.

And from the standpoint of NVC, feelings come from whether or not we perceive our needs to be fulfilled, met, or satisfied.

When your need for safety is met, you have certain feelings. When your need for safety is not met, you have different feelings. The same is true for trust, autonomy, love, and all the other Universal Human Needs.

Loneliness is a feeling. Knowing where the feeling of loneliness comes from may help the feeling shift into something else.

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Communication and Culture; Nonviolent Communication
     

Perhaps the title of this article caught your eye. Was your initial response something like, “Are you kidding? I do not use violence to communicate!” If so, you are not alone. This was my reaction as well when I was discussing a care plan with a colleague who informed me that its language was violent. In the moment, I was puzzled and, if I’m truthful, offended....

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Antidote To Divisiveness
     

“Nine in ten Americans say overcoming divisiveness is now more important than ever before.” New Public Agenda/USA Today poll April 2021

CCL Board Member Beth Hanson brought this poll result to my attention and wondered if we could encourage people to see our similarities and commonalities as a way to reduce divisiveness. To me, divisiveness results from a loss of human connection...

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Change within Ourselves
     

Not long ago, I was facilitating a training where we were exploring how NVC can be used to learn from our limitations without losing self-respect.

A woman told us she screamed at her child that morning before coming to the training. She said some things to the child that she wished she hadn't said - and when she looked into her child's eyes, she saw how hurt he was.

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Empathic Listening
     

Empathic Listening is a mixture of communication skills and awareness to use when you genuinely want to connect. You can use it to applaud someone’s victory or to help uncover what’s really troubling her. The result is often a deeper sense of connection, relief and joy!

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Keeping Marshall Rosenberg's Work Alive
     

One of the things that strongly stood out for me when visionary, teacher and author Marshall Rosenberg spoke was that he planted most of what he said within a larger socio-cultural context. Even when he engaged in role plays focusing on personal relationship challenges volunteered by audience members, one could recognize a broader landscape informing his responses. His concern was not solely with the interpersonal breakthroughs that people might experience by learning the NVC process but equally, and perhaps even more so, he was concerned with the questionable merit of the systemic structures shaping and directing people’s lives.

Read More

     
     

Getting Past the Pain Between Us
Practical Spirituality
We Can Work It Out

     
Compassion in Action: Empathy - Best Inspirational Story
     
     
     

“We look forward to a time when the power of love will replace the love of power. Then will our world know the blessings of peace. ”

William Goldstone

     
     
Handouts
Nonviolent Communication Free Handouts and Links
     

Radical Compassion: Handouts, Files and Links
Articles - Center for Building a Culture of Empathy
Visit our Handouts Page

     

“Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves. ”

Carl Jung

     
     
Book Excerpts
Getting Past the Pain Between Us - Chapter 1
     
     

Read the excerpt here
Buy the book on special here - 50% off

     
Practical Spirituality- Chapter 1
     
     

Read the excerpt here
Buy the book on special here - 50% off

We Can Work It Out - Chapter 1
     
     

Read the excerpt here
Buy the book on special here - 50% off

     

“Nobody can hurt me without my permission.”

Mahatma Gandhi

     
     
Poem
     
     
     
Humor
ANVC (Almost Nonviolent Communication) Cartoons
     
     

Cartoons by Sven Hartenstein

     

Conceived by Meiji Stewart. Illustrated by David Blaisdell.

     
     
Audios/Videos
NVC Marshall Rosenberg - San Francisco Workshop
     
     
Nonviolent Communication: The Process of Restorative Justice
     
     
     
Resources
Becoming a CNVC Certified Trainer

CNVC is committed to the vision of a critical mass of the world's population using Nonviolent Communication (NVC) to resolve differences peacefully. A strong community of qualified trainers will play an important role in the realization of this goal.

Introduction to the Certification Process
Guidelines for Sharing NVC for Individuals who are not Certified Trainers

     
NVC Facebook Groups

List of 90+ NVC Facebook Groups

     
     

“Answer with kindness when faced with hostility.”

Lao Tzu

     
     
Distance Learning Opportunities
NVC Academy
The NVC Academy offers hundreds of affordable online personal growth courses and resources to learn Nonviolent Communication from home.
     
     

Visit the NVC Academy

     
The Center for Nonviolent Communication
The Center for Nonviolent Communication (CNVC) is a global organization that supports the learning and sharing of Nonviolent Communication (NVC), and helps people peacefully and effectively resolve conflicts in personal, organizational, and political settings.
     
     

Visit CNVC.org/Trainings

     
     
News
NVC in the News!
     
     

“This above all – to thine own self be true.”

William Shakespeare

     
     
Peaceful Living - When Our Own Pain Keeps Us
Stay Connected to the Values of Compassion With the Free 365 Daily Peaceful Living Meditations.
     
The more faithfully you listen to the voice within you,
the better you will hear what is happening outside.
—Dag Hammarskjöld
     

When Our Own Pain Keeps Us
At the beginning of a flight, flight attendants advise that if the plane loses air pressure, passengers should put on their own oxygen masks before putting them on their children. This is because an adult who dies of suffocation is of no help to a small child. So it is with empathy.....

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Sign Up for the 365 Daily Meditations
Learn about the book here

     
     
NVC - Additional Resources
  1. NVC TIP SERIES (Free daily and weekly tips)
  2. FREE RESOURCES
  3. NVC FACEBOOK PAGES

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PuddleDancer Press
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