Nonviolent (Empathic) Communication for these challenging times –- September 2020

Published: Fri, 09/04/20

  Sep 2020
     
NVC Monthly Newsletter
     

Please share with friends, family, colleagues, protesters and social groups, if you believe they might find value in this. We now cover over 35 different topics from an NVC perspective-all written by a senior certified trainer. Please read some to learn more. Please stay safe and healthy for yourself, your loved one’s, for our first responders, for all of our front line workers and for everybody! Please visit us at www.nonviolentcommunication.com

If you are new to Nonviolent Communication please visit our page on the basics of Nonviolent Communication.

Please visit our dedicated pages if you would like to know more about NVC and Covid and/or NVC and Racism.

Click here to see all of our books!

     

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What You'll Find in This Month's Newsletter:
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Articles
  • Covid 19 — 15 pounds
  • 5th Letter to Parents - School Choices"
  • Nonviolent Communication for a Stressful Situation
  • Nonviolent Communication Skills in Intimate Relationships
  • Spanking (Non NVC specific article)
Audios/Videos
  • Brené Brown: The secret to having compassion
Book Specials
Distance Learning Opportunities
  • NVC Academy
  • The Center for Nonviolent Communication Trainings
    • Virtual Intensive Trainings - September & November
Martin Luther King Jr. Quotes
     
Book Excerpt - Being Genuine
  • Chapter 1 - Tuning in to Anger and Confusion
Handouts
  • From our new website handout page
Humor
  • ANVC (Almost Nonviolent Communication) Cartoons
Reviews of Nonviolent Communication
     
Peaceful Daily Reflection/Meditation
  • Making Requests Count
Resources
  • Becoming a CNVC certified trainer
Songs
  • 4 Inspiring, Meaningful & Funny Songs
    • Most People Are Good - Luke Bryan
    • Always Stay Humble and Kind – Tim McGraw
    • Bohemian Virus Rhapsody by Queen COVID-19 Coronavirus Parody - Jennifer Corday
    • Can't Touch This Covid Parody - Dr. Lee
NVC Resources
  1. NVC TIP SERIES (Free daily and weekly tips)
  2. FREE RESOURCES
  3. NVC FACEBOOK GROUPS
     
 
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“Empathy is simply listening, holding space, withholding judgment, emotionally connecting, and communicating that incredibly healing message of you’re not alone.”
Brené Brown

     
     
Articles
Covid 19 — 15 pounds By Sylvia Haskvitz
     
     

Wondering if any of you are also noticing some of your old eating habits showing up during Covid-19.

Are you searching for more sweet, salty and crunchy foods to satisfy that desire for stress relief, to alleviate your boredom or just to get you through what seems like another GroundHog Day?

You may feel frustrated that some of your usual ways of relieving stress and finding comfort with a weekly or monthly massage or haircut may not be in the cards right now as you navigate your desire for safety....

Sylvia is the author of Eat By Choice which is one of our 50% off book specials for September. You can click here to find the special. Click here to read more.

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School Choices by Victoria Kindle Hodson & Sura Hart
     
     

If you are thinking about what is the best education you can imagine for your child ...
If you are questioning how you can best support that happening for your child ...
If you are open to considering some “out of the box” alternative views on education ...
In this letter, we offer some perspectives from our many years working with teachers, parents, and school administrators. We especially draw on Victoria’s 45 years of professional work in the field of homeschool education.

Sura and Victoria are the authors of Respectful Parents, Respectful Kids which is one of our 50% off book specials for September. You can click here to find the special. Click here to learn more.
They are also authors of No Fault Classroom as well as The Compassionate Classroom.

Letter #5: School Choices
Letter #4: Co-creating Our World
Letter #3: Power-with Parenting
Letter #2: Take Your Time, It's Yours
Letter #1: Checking in With Yourself & Your Kids

     
Nonviolent Communication for a Stressful Situation
     

Stress is becoming more of a concern in our modern lifestyle. Many of us work in a stressful environment and find ourselves vulnerable to sleep disorders, feeling overworked, anxiety, frustration, and even depression, just to name a few. Can we change our perception of stress and turn a negative emotion into a more positive experience?

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Spanking has Declined in America, Study Finds, but Pediatricians Worry About Impact of Pandemic By Sandee LaMotte
     

Millennials and Gen X parents appear to be spanking their kids less than previous generations, according to a research letter published Monday in the medical journal JAMA Pediatrics...

Read More 

     
     
     
     
Resources on the New Website
The Importance of Communication in Intimate Relationships
     
     

“NVC requires us to be continually conscious of the beauty within ourselves and other people.”
-Marshall B. Rosenberg, PhD.

Read More 

     
The Importance of Effective Communication During a Crisis like COVID-19
     
     

“Our survival as a species depends on our ability to recognize that our well-being and the well-being of others are in fact one and the same.”
-Marshall B. Rosenberg, PhD.

Read More 

     
Nonviolent Communication: Confronting Racism with Compassion
     
     

“The best way I can get understanding from another person is to give this person the understanding, too. If I want them to hear my needs and feelings, I first need to empathize”
-Marshall B. Rosenberg, PhD.

Read More 

     
     

Eat by Choice, Not by Habit
Being Genuine
Respectful Parents, Respectful Kids

     
Distance Learning Opportunities
NVC Academy
The NVC Academy offers hundreds of affordable online personal growth courses and resources to learn Nonviolent Communication from home.
     
     

Visit the NVC Academy

     
The Center for Nonviolent Communication
The Center for Nonviolent Communication (CNVC) is a global organization that supports the learning and sharing of Nonviolent Communication (NVC), and helps people peacefully and effectively resolve conflicts in personal, organizational, and political settings.
     
     

Visit CNVC.org/Trainings
2020 SEPTEMBER VIT
2020 NOVEMBER VIT
Guidelines for Sharing NVC for Individuals who are not Certified Trainers

Benefits of a virtual training (VIT)
By attending a virtual training, you will have the unprecedented opportunity to both be immersed in the material, and to bring it home to your own environments every day. Comfort, connection and immediate integration, especially with this particular group of life-transforming trainers, create a powerful and unforgettable field to support the movement into mastery.
This VIT will count toward certification equivalent to an IIT.
42 training sessions will be offered and you will get the recording of all of them!

     
     
     
     
Martin Luther King Jr. Quotes
“If you can’t fly then run if you can’t run then walk if you can’t walk then crawl, but whatever you do keep moving forward.”

“Only in the darkness can you see the stars.”

“Forgiveness is not an occasional act, it is a constant attitude.”

“I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.”

“The quality, not the longevity of one’s life is what is important.”

“Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into a friend.”

“Nonviolence means avoiding not only external physical violence but also internal violence of spirit. You not only refuse to shoot a man, but you refuse to hate him.”

“A riot is the language of the unheard.”

“We must accept finite disappointment, but never lose infinite hope.”

“If we do an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth, we will be a blind and toothless nation.”

“No person has the right to rain on your dreams.”

“I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.”
     
     
Handouts
Nonviolent Communication Free Handouts and Links
     

Visit our Handouts Page

     

“It’s my conviction that nothing enduring can be built on violence.”
Mahatma Gandhi

     
     
Book Excerpt
Being Genuine - Chapter 1
     
     

Read the excerpt here
Buy the book on special here - 50% off

     
     

“Impossible is just an opinion.”
Paulo Coelho

     
     
Humor
ANVC (Almost Nonviolent Communication) Cartoons
     
     

Cartoons by Sven Hartenstein

     

“If you want to fly give up everything that weighs you down.”
Buddha

     
     
Videos
Brené Brown: The Secret to Having Compassion
     
     
     

“I never lose. Either I win or learn.”
Nelson Mandela

     
     
Resources
Becoming a CNVC Certified Trainer

CNVC is committed to the vision of a critical mass of the world's population using Nonviolent CommunicationSM (NVC) to resolve differences peacefully. A strong community of qualified trainers will play an important role in the realization of this goal.

Introduction to the Certification Process

     
     
     
     
Songs
Inspirational and Meaningful Songs!
What impact does music have on society?
Music has the power to culturally, morally, and emotionally influence our society. Thus, the more intentional we become with the sounds, messages, and moods we create and release through our music, the more powerful we will become in making deep positive impacts.
     

"The willingness to share does not make one charitable; it makes one free."
Robert Brault

     
     
Peaceful Living - Global Peace
Stay Connected to the Values of Compassion With the Free 365 Daily Peaceful Living Meditations.
     
There is a vitality, a life force, an energy, a quickening,
that is translated through you into action, and because
there is only one of you in all time, this expression is
unique. And, if you block it, it will never exist
through any other medium and will be lost.
—Martha Graham
     

Making Requests Count
The first three components of the Nonviolent Communi- cation process clarify our observations, feelings, and the needs we are trying to meet. The fourth component is to make a specific and doable request. The request completes the communication by stating specifically what we would like from someone else to meet our need. Without the request, our communication can be confusing and can easily be seen as a demand.

Read More
Sign Up for the 365 Daily Meditations
Learn about the book here

     
     
Recent Reviews of Nonviolent Communication 3rd edition:
     
5.0 out of 5 stars A method we all need to know
It gives a good method to talk to someone who has a different view than you. It teaches to open ourselves up to the thoughts of others who do not appear to think like us and hold apparently differing views.

5.0 out of 5 stars I Wish I Discovered This Book Earlier In My Life!
This might be one of the most important books you will ever read! This book not only serves as a guide to interpersonal communication, but intrapersonal communication as well.

5.0 out of 5 stars A good read to learn more about non verbal communication
As a mental health therapist this is a good read to understand more about the non verbal communication. Especially with “passive/aggressive” individuals.

5.0 out of 5 stars Mr. Rogers for adults
Marshall Rosenberg is the Mr. Rogers for adults and his book Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships gives life to all of the things I've spent my life trying to grow into and share with others. I want to live in the kind of world he advocates and the best way for me to create that reality is through my communication, especially with my children. The approach centers around identifying and communicating your feelings, needs, and requests and within such simplicity lies world-changing brilliance.
"Every criticism, judgment, diagnosis, and expression of anger is the tragic expression of an unmet need."

5.0 out of 5 stars Great read for those wanting to resolve conflicts peacefully
Great book on communication. I think anyone can apply these principles in their life to improve their interactions with others. The book had quality construction and the layout and design of the contents made it feel like a textbook.
     
     
NVC - Additional Resources
  1. NVC TIP SERIES (Free daily and weekly tips)
  2. FREE RESOURCES
  3. NVC FACEBOOK PAGES

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