Happy New Year with Nonviolent Communication!

Published: Thu, 12/31/20

  Jan 2021
 
NVC Monthly Newsletter
 

Happy New Year!

Please share with friends, family, colleagues and social groups, if you believe they might find value in this. We now cover over 35 different topics from an NVC perspective-all written by a senior certified trainer. Please read some to learn more. Please stay safe and healthy for yourself, your loved one’s, for our first responders, for all of our front line workers and for everybody! Please visit us at www.nonviolentcommunication.com


"The magic in new beginnings is truly the most powerful of them all.”
―Josiyah Martin

“New year—a new chapter, new verse, or just the same old story? Ultimately we write it. The choice is ours.”
—Alex Morritt

“And now we welcome the new year. Full of things that have never been.”
―Rainer Maria Rilke

“Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go. They merely determine where you start.”
—Nido Qubein

“It is never too late to be what you might have been.”
—George Eliot

“You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.”
— C.S. Lewis

“The New Year is a painting not yet painted; a path not yet stepped on; a wing not yet taken off! Things haven’t happened as yet! Before the clock strikes twelve, remember that you are blessed with the ability to reshape your life!”
―Mehmet Murat Ildan

“What a wonderful thought it is that some of the best days of our lives haven’t even happened yet.”
—Anne Frank

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PuddleDancer Press

What You'll Find in This Month's Newsletter:
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Articles
  1. Making Your New Year's Resolutions a Reality!
  2. How to Start Living Your True Potential: Steps to Move beyond Judgments and Live Your Best Life in the New Year
  3. Setting New Year's Resolutions You're Likely to Meet
  4. The Importance of Communicating About Climate Change Nonviolently
  5. Sitting With Not Knowing: Entering the Spirit of Nonviolent Communication
  6. Power Up Your Team with Nonviolent Communication Principles
  7. How Nonviolent Communication skills help at work
  8. How To Make People Listen: We Need To Talk About Nonviolent Communication
Audios/Videos
  • Vision of the Future - Marshall Rosenberg
  • Compassion in Action
  • Transform Your New Year's Resolutions Into Habits - Podcast Playlist
Book Specials
Distance Learning Opportunities
  • NVC Academy
  • The Center for Nonviolent Communication
Book Excerpt - Being Genuine
  • Epilogue - Cultivating Peace
Humor
  • ANVC (Almost Nonviolent Communication) Cartoons
  • PuddleDancer Press Cartoon - Anything is Possible
NVC in the News!
  1. Foster connection — no, not internet connection - The Concordian
  2. Why I Give - YES! Magazine
  3. Choose a Life You Love Living Each Day (yes, it is possible) - The Simply Luxurious Life
  4. Cultivating Peace: Buddhist-Inspired Approaches to Conflict Resolution - Buddhistdoor Global
  5. Nonviolent Communication Connects Us To The Power Within - KPFA 94.1FM
  6. 'All American citizens are brothers of a common country' - The Altamont Enterprise
  7. Top 10 Things to Know About: Non-Violent Communication & De-escalation - BTW
  8. Giving & Receiving with Rick Kahler - SDPB Radio
  9. Book recommendations from 's 40 under 40 in tech - Up News Info
Peaceful Daily Reflection/Meditation
  • Setting Goals for the New Year
Resources
  • Becoming a CNVC certified trainer
Songs
  • Top 10 New Year's Eve Songs
  • Love is Still the Answer - Jason Mraz
Poem
  • Dare To...
NVC Resources
  1. NVC TIP SERIES (Free daily and weekly tips)
  2. FREE RESOURCES
  3. NVC FACEBOOK GROUPS
  4. NEW ** NVC LINKEDIN GROUPS ** NEW
 
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Articles
1. Making Your New Year's Resolutions a Reality!

In January it's traditional to make New Year's resolutions. You plan to go to the gym, get into great physical shape, earn more money, improve a troubled relationship, or get along better with your family members.

But you suspect that in a few days or weeks you'll get tired of making the effort and your good intentions will disappear. Maybe you worry about how much effort and work is involved, or you think it isn't possible to have these things. Just like last year, you'll slip back into your old patterns. Would you like to improve your chances of making your resolutions stick?

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2. How to Start Living Your True Potential: Steps to Move beyond Judgments and Live Your Best Life in the New Year

Do you ever find yourself in the same emotional landscape over and over again? Okay, sure, the scenery and faces around you might be different, but the way you feel — a tangible sense of dissatisfaction — seems all too familiar. Could it be Deja vu? Karma? A result of your childhood?

How can we live up to our true potential, a life filled with relationships and experiences that truly meet our needs, when we keep putting our focus on the outside rather than looking inward? Isn’t it true, that the only common denominator in your experiences is you?

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3. Setting New Year's Resolutions You're Likely to Meet

I’m a big believer in the idea that we’re all a work in progress. I also believe our family — whatever shape it comes in — can be an exceptional source of inspiration and support in our continued self-improvement. The beginning of a new year offers the opportunity to reflect and set goals for self-improvement. Resolutions can be a great motivator......

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4. The Importance of Communicating About Climate Change Nonviolently

One of the failures of the environmental movement over the last 50 years has been thinking that if we simply give people enough information and data, that that will motivate them into action.

Unfortunately, that doesn’t work. The finger wagging environmentalist trying to motivate other people through shame or guilt is practically a cliche.

When people are motivated by shame or guilt, they will resist and resent it.

It also doesn’t bring them any closer to the deeper reasons for why a particular action is important; they’re just on the receiving end of a guilt trip or being shamed for their actions....

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5. Sitting With Not Knowing: Entering the Spirit of Nonviolent Communication

As we approach the shortest day of the year in the northern hemisphere with the Winter Solstice, an unconscious, more primal part of us might be wondering, “When will the days start getting longer? Will the sun actually return?” A similar kind of waiting and wondering plays out this month in different religious traditions. With Hanukkah, while they know the story, people wonder again each year, “Will the oil last?” Christmas, and the Advent, are all about anticipation: “When will the Christ child arrive?” And as the calendar approaches January 1, we wonder, “What will the New Year bring this year?”...

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6. Power Up Your Team with Nonviolent Communication Principles

Why does one startup succeed wildly while another with a similar model and talented team fails miserably? Case studies might highlight the winner’s flexible business model or responsive community management. They might point to the failure’s wasted budget or poor product planning. But, in the end, all of that boils down to communication. No matter what, the fate of every company depends on the team’s ability to communicate clearly and constructively.....

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7. How Nonviolent Communication skills help at work

Today I want to share one of the most precious teachings in my life — Nonviolent Communication (NVC) and how it helps me at work. Hopefully, this video will inspire you to learn more and gain some tools that you can apply to increase connection & empathy with clients as well as increase your productivity whilst making life more wonderful overall......

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8. How To Make People Listen: We Need To Talk About Nonviolent Communication

In the professional world, vulnerability almost sounds like a dirty word. We are expected to produce perfect bodies of work that pour out of us effortlessly at the same time that the glorification of “busy” is non-negotiable – one must constantly produce, multitask, get stuff done. Productivity is meant to happen at full speed, no excuses, no time to whine or ask for help. We are supposed to be poised and collected even when we underslept and are overworked. We must keep up with the news and the new emerging technologies of everyday 2020 life. In business meetings, true feelings should never be revealed because a great professional has to have mastered their ultimate poker face.....

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“Don’t live the same year 75 times and call it a life.”
Robin Sharma

Distance Learning Opportunities
NVC Academy
The NVC Academy offers hundreds of affordable online personal growth courses and resources to learn Nonviolent Communication from home.

Visit the NVC Academy

The Center for Nonviolent Communication
The Center for Nonviolent Communication (CNVC) is a global organization that supports the learning and sharing of Nonviolent Communication (NVC), and helps people peacefully and effectively resolve conflicts in personal, organizational, and political settings.

Visit CNVC.org/Trainings
Guidelines for Sharing NVC for Individuals who are not Certified Trainers

Book Excerpt
Being Genuine - Cultivating Peace

Read the excerpt here
Buy the book on special here - 50% off

“The magic in new beginnings is truly the most powerful of them all.”
Josiyah Martin

Poem
Humor
ANVC (Almost Nonviolent Communication) Cartoons

Cartoons by Sven Hartenstein

Conceived by Meiji Stewart. Illustrated by David Blaisdell.

Videos
Vision of the Future - Marshall Rosenberg
Compassion In Action
Podcast Playlist: Transform Your New Year's Resolutions Into Habits

"New year—a new chapter, new verse, or just the same old story? Ultimately we write it. The choice is ours."
Alex Morritt

Resources
Becoming a CNVC Certified Trainer

CNVC is committed to the vision of a critical mass of the world's population using Nonviolent CommunicationSM (NVC) to resolve differences peacefully. A strong community of qualified trainers will play an important role in the realization of this goal.

Introduction to the Certification Process

January Book Specials

Get all 3 at 50% off with Code JAN21 starting January 1st

Songs
New Year's Eve Playlists & Songs
What impact does music have on society?
Music has the power to culturally, morally, and emotionally influence our society. Thus, the more intentional we become with the sounds, messages, and moods we create and release through our music, the more powerful we will become in making deep positive impacts.

"And now we welcome the new year. Full of things that have never been."
Rainer Maria Rilke

News
NVC in the News!
  1. Foster connection — no, not internet connection - The Concordian
  2. Why I Give - YES! Magazine
  3. Choose a Life You Love Living Each Day (yes, it is possible) - The Simply Luxurious Life
  4. Cultivating Peace: Buddhist-Inspired Approaches to Conflict Resolution - Buddhistdoor Global
  5. Nonviolent Communication Connects Us To The Power Within - KPFA 94.1FM
  6. 'All American citizens are brothers of a common country' - The Altamont Enterprise
  7. Top 10 Things to Know About: Non-Violent Communication & De-escalation - BTW
  8. Giving & Receiving with Rick Kahler - SDPB Radio
  9. Book recommendations from 's 40 under 40 in tech - Up News Info

"Your present circumstances don’t determine where you can go. They merely determine where you start."
Nido Qubein

Peaceful Living - Global Peace
Stay Connected to the Values of Compassion With the Free 365 Daily Peaceful Living Meditations.
If we ourselves remain angry and then sing world peace, it has little meaning. First, our individual self must learn peace. This we can practice. Then we can teach the rest of the world.
—The Dalai Lama

Setting Goals for the New Year
What do you want to focus on this year? What are your goals, hopes, and dreams? It’s important to make your goals concrete and specific. Don’t just say that you want to be happier; consider how you would like your life to be different. What if your goal is to support world peace by living your own life more peacefully? Consider the specific ways you will do this....

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Sign Up for the 365 Daily Meditations
Learn about the book here

“I hope that in this year to come, you make mistakes. Because if you are making mistakes, then you are making new things, trying new things, learning, living, pushing yourself, changing yourself, changing your world. You’re doing things you’ve never done before, and more importantly, you’re doing something.”
Neil Gaiman

NVC - Additional Resources
  1. NVC TIP SERIES (Free daily and weekly tips)
  2. FREE RESOURCES
  3. NVC FACEBOOK PAGES
  4. NEW ** NVC LINKEDIN GROUPS ** NEW

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PuddleDancer Press
www.nonviolentcommunication.com

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