June 2021 Nonviolent Communication Newsletter

Published: Wed, 06/02/21

  June 2021
     
NVC Monthly Newsletter
     

We hope you find value in the resources we are providing today! We invite you to share with friends, family, colleagues, and others, if you believe they might also find value in this.

Our most recently updated topic is written on Gun Control. Our website covers over 35 different topics from an NVC perspective-all written by a senior certified trainer. Please read some to learn more.

If you are new to Nonviolent Communication please visit our page on the basics of Nonviolent Communication.

Our title Dementia Together written by Pati Bielak-Smith won two Gold Place Ben Franklin Awards in both Psychology and Self-Help.
Click here to see all of our books!

Please stay safe and healthy!

     

Thank you : )
PuddleDancer Press

     
What You'll Find in This Month's Newsletter:
You may click any section header to jump to that section. (This feature is not supported on all devices and email clients.)
Upcoming Events
  • The Compassion Course - Online June 23rd, 2021 through June 22nd, 2022
Articles
  • Finding Meaning in Tragedy by Eddie Zacapa
  • this very simple formula of life by Rachel Turiel
  • The scientifically proven, step-by-step guide to having a breakthrough conversation across party lines by Lila MacLellan
  • Nonviolent Communication™ and Gun Control
Audios/Videos
  • Nonviolent Communication Part 1 Marshall Rosenberg
  • Great Lives Marshall Rosenberg BBC Audio Interview
Book Specials
Compassion in Action
  • Kindness Boomerang
Distance Learning Opportunities
  • NVC Academy
  • The Center for Nonviolent Communication Trainings
Book Excerpts
  • Collaborating in the Workplace - Chapter 1
  • Dementia Together - Chapter 2
  • Practical Spirituality - Chapter 1
Handouts
  • Radical Compassion Handouts
Humor
  • ANVC (Almost Nonviolent Communication) Cartoons
  • PuddleDancer Press Cartoon
NVC in the News
  • How Creatives Can Neutralize Negativity and Cultivate Growth by Bija Bennett
Peaceful Daily Reflection/Meditation
  • Seeing the God in All of Us
Resources
  • Becoming a CNVC certified trainer
  • Guidelines for Sharing NVC for Individuals who are not Certified Trainers
  • List of 90+ NVC Facebook Groups
Songs
  • My Boy - Elvie Shane (for step dads everywhere)
  • What's Going On - Marvin Gaye
  • I Will Survive - Gloria Gaynor
  • Humble and Kind - Tim McGraw
NVC Resources
  1. NVC TIP SERIES (Free daily and weekly tips)
  2. FREE RESOURCES
  3. NVC FACEBOOK GROUPS
  4. NEW ** NVC LINKEDIN GROUPS ** NEW
     
 
SCROLL DOWN TO SEE ALL
 
     
Events
The Compassion Course Online with Thom Bond
     
June 23rd, 2021 through June 22nd, 2022

"For anyone who wants to have more compassion, understanding and harmony in their lives and in our world”

As we humans have developed other technologies, the technology of compassion has been developed too. This course provides the “how to” of creating more connection, understanding, and compassion in our daily lives – a way to create a world we will be happy to leave our children’s children. The work is challenging, at times confronting, and with perseverance, practice, focus, and dedication, it works.

What You’ll Learn:
  • Experience more harmony and understanding with important people in your life
  • Have less painful, shorter conflicts
  • Have more awareness of your needs, wants and desires
  • Have your needs expressed and understood
  • Increase congruence between your values and actions
  • Translate judgments into dialogues & requests
  • Increase harmony and understanding among others
  • Stay more centered, open and effective in conflicts
     

Register Now!

     

"Please do as I requested, only if you can do so with the joy of a little child feeding a hungry duck.
Please do not do as I request if there is any taint of fear of punishment if you don’t.
Please do not do as I request to buy my love, that, is hoping that I will love you more if you do.
Please do not do as I request if you will feel guilty if you don’t.
Please do not do as I request if you will feel shameful.
And certainly do not do as I request out of any sense of duty or obligation."
Marshall Rosenberg

     
     
Articles
Finding Meaning in Tragedy by Eddie Zacapa
     
     

Sometimes we may not understand why certain things occur in our lives. Whether we are experiencing tragedy, loss, or affliction, we can trust that something bigger is at work in the midst of our trial.

Nina Kessler is a parent who tells of a tragic event that changed her life forever – an event that made her question how God could allow such a thing to happen. She said that at the time it was (in her mind) the worst thing that could possibly happen.

She writes in a newsletter called HAND (Helping After Neonotal Death) in Vol. 5 Issue 2:

“My daughter Amanda was five months old to the day when she died following open-heart surgery in January 1983. Today, Amanda (I still love that name) would be 22 years old – a grown woman. And yet I only see her through pictures, as a baby...

Read More 

this very simple formula of life by Rachel Turiel
     

Right now, what I really want to tell you is that six pine grosbeaks have been visiting our crab apple daily. They’re new to our yard and each time they show up—earnest beaks clipping at red berries—I’m filled with the maternal joy of so easily providing for someone's needs.

In other social structures, ahem, that is, inside the house, well, things are a bit more complicated. I would like to create this app that decodes everybody’s needs. Because there is this very simple formula of life: we all are all the time moving towards satisfying needs. The pine grosbeaks are searching for sustenance. Our dog is looking for purpose, hence the protective woofing every time our upstairs neighbors suspiciously ascend their own stairs. All the tomatoes in our greenhouse lean towards the sun: photosynthesis is life, baby!

Read More

     
The scientifically proven, step-by-step guide to having a breakthrough conversation across party lines by Lila MacLellan
     

There seems to be no way around it: In the aftermath of a contentious US presidential election, conversations between voters all along the political spectrum either devolve into shouting matches and insults, or irreconcilable platitudes. If they occur at all.

But we’ve been here before, according to the late psychologist Marshall Rosenberg. As a communications coach and mediator for civil rights and student activists during the US civil rights era, Rosenberg developed a practical strategy for peaceful conflict resolution called non-violent communication. By focusing on language and process, the theory goes, injured parties can shift the tone of their communication and spur collaboration....

Read More

     
     

"Out of clutter,
Find simplicity.
From discord.
Find harmony.
In the middle of difficulty,
Lies opportunity."
Albert Einstein

     
     
Resources on the New Website
Nonviolent Communication™ and Gun Control
     
     

"Fantasists and zealots can be found on both sides of the debate over guns in America. Between these two extremes we must find grounds for a rational discussion about the problem of gun violence.”
-Sam Harris

Read More 

     
     

Collaborating in the Workplace
Dementia Together
Practical Spirituality

     
Compassion in Action
Kindness Boomerang
     
What goes around comes around. This charming short film depicts the ripple-effect of kind acts -- the way in which receiving an unexpected moment of generosity from a stranger can cause us to become more aware of the needs of those around us and to take action to become a vector of goodness.
     
     
     
     
     
Handouts
Nonviolent Communication Free Handouts and Links
     

Radical Compassion Handouts
Visit our Handouts Page

     

"To abandon what is harmful.
To adopt what is wholesome.
To purify the heart and the mind.
This is the teaching of Buddha."
Buddha

     
     
Book Excerpts
Collaborating in the Workplace - Chapter 1
     
       

Read the excerpt here
Buy the book on special here - 50% off

     
Dementia Together - Chapter 2
     
     

Read the excerpt here
Buy the book on special here - 50% off

     
Practical Spirituality - Chapter 1
     
     

Read the excerpt here
Buy the book on special here - 50% off

     
     
     
     
Humor
ANVC (Almost Nonviolent Communication) Cartoons
     
     

Cartoons by Sven Hartenstein

     

Conceived by Meiji Stewart. Illustrated by David Blaisdell.

     
     
Audios/Videos
Nonviolent Communication Part 1 Marshall Rosenberg
     
     
Great Lives Marshall Rosenberg BBC Audio Interview

Marshall Rosenberg was the stern-faced creator of nonviolent communication, a man who spent his life finding ways to eradicate hate. Often armed only with his trademark giraffe and jackal puppets, Rosenberg toured the world teaching a new way of speaking. Language was key, but to discover the meaning of the puppets you'll have to tune in. Championing Marshall Rosenberg is comedian and author, Tony Hawks. A sceptical Matthew Parris presents while David Baker of the London School of Life fills in the biographical gaps. Produced at BBC Bristol by Miles Warde First broadcast on BBC Radio 4 in August 2016

     
     
     

"There is transcendent power in example.
We reform ourselves unconsciously when we walk uprightly."
Anne Sophie Swetchine

     
     
Resources
Becoming a CNVC Certified Trainer

CNVC is committed to the vision of a critical mass of the world's population using Nonviolent Communication (NVC) to resolve differences peacefully. A strong community of qualified trainers will play an important role in the realization of this goal.

Introduction to the Certification Process
Guidelines for Sharing NVC for Individuals who are not Certified Trainers

     
NVC Facebook Groups

List of 90+ NVC Facebook Groups

     
     

"Something to do.
Someone to love and
Something to hope for."
Indian Proverb

     
     
Distance Learning Opportunities
NVC Academy
The NVC Academy offers hundreds of affordable online personal growth courses and resources to learn Nonviolent Communication from home.
     
     

Visit the NVC Academy

     
The Center for Nonviolent Communication
The Center for Nonviolent Communication (CNVC) is a global organization that supports the learning and sharing of Nonviolent Communication (NVC), and helps people peacefully and effectively resolve conflicts in personal, organizational, and political settings.
     
     

Visit CNVC.org/Trainings

     
     

"It is good to have an end to journey towards, but it is
The journey that matters in the end."
Ursula K Le Guin

     
     
News
NVC in the News!
     
Songs
     
     

"Every time you smile at someone,
It is an action of love,
A gift to the person,
A beautiful thing."
Mother Theresa

     
     
Peaceful Living - Seeing the God in All of Us
Stay Connected to the Values of Compassion With the Free 365 Daily Peaceful Living Meditations.
     
Each contact with a human being is so rare,
and so precious. One should preserve it.
—Anonymous
     

Seeing the God in All of Us
Every life is precious. There isn’t a person or creature that is here by mistake. Something greater than all life combined has determined our place on Earth. Simply put your energy where you feel the most joy, and know that the Universe will take care of the rest....

Read More
Sign Up for the 365 Daily Meditations
Learn about the book here

     
     
NVC - Additional Resources
  1. NVC TIP SERIES (Free daily and weekly tips)
  2. FREE RESOURCES
  3. NVC FACEBOOK PAGES

We hope you find value in our monthly newsletters. We would love to receive ANY feedback or suggestions you may want to share. Please let others know about our newsletter to help spread nonviolent communication, love, hope, humor and compassion, if you are willing :)

We want a more compassionate, equitable, peaceful, safe and healthy world.

Please be safe!

Warmly,
PuddleDancer Press
www.nonviolentcommunication.com

     

Please share with friends, family, colleagues and social groups, if you believe they might find value in this:

Facebook
Twitter
LinkedIn